Susannah Breslin at Salon interviewed sex writers, and asked their opinions on "Sex and the City", both the TV show and the movie. The sex writers interviewed are Lena Chen, Tracie Egan, Jamye Waxman, Rachel Kramer Bussel, and Susie Bright. All were critical of the TV show and movie except for Waxman. I agree with the nay-sayers.
Here is some of what Bright had to say, and I agree with her wholeheartedly.
Go read the Salon article, and then reread my blog post, I Can't Stand "Sex And The City".