Flick My Clit

Once again, there's a debate over clitoral v. vaginal orgasms. This debate brings up Freud's old "mature" (vaginal) vs. "immature" (clitoral) orgasm talk, making it sound as if a woman needs a penis to have a "real" orgasm.

I have all kinds of orgasms depending on what parts of my body are being stimulated. My husband has no trouble finding my G-spot although my little stubby fingers can't find the little bugger. I like using my G-spot sex toys to hunt down the delightful area and I have very intense orgasms. Sadly, I don't ejaculate. I always wondered what it would be like to have a screeching orgasm and spurt fluid all over my sheets but I guess I'll never know.

I also have clitoral vibrators that I love to use more than the G-spot toys. I prefer a clitoral to a G-spot orgasm but my moods change as the sun rises and sets in the sky. My favorite clitoral vibe is my Lelo Nea Black Pearl. It's a tiny little thing that packs quite a wallop. I have great orgasms with my Lelo. I'm talking writhing-on-the-bed-mewling-like-a-kitten orgasms. Several of them. Then I curl up into a little ball and drift off into Dreamland.

I haven't noticed a difference in orgasm between my G-spot orgasms and my clitoral orgasms. Both feel very good and I won't turn either of them down. My point is that women have several ways of coming and all of it feels good. I don't like to hear anyone talk about what a "real" orgasm is - especially if it means male penetration leading to a "real" orgasm. Ask a lesbian how wrong that it.