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April 29, 2006

More Women Using Sex Toys

This study called "The Health Benefits of Sexual Aids & Devices: A Comprehensive Study of their Relationship to Satisfaction and Quality of Life" by the Berman Institute didn't tell me anything I didn't already know. The study found that more women today are using sexual aids like sex toys to enhance their pleasure. The research has been around since 2004, when it was revealed at the second annual Women's Sexual Health Staet-Of-The-Art Series conference in conjunction with the Northwestern University Feinberg School of Medicine.

The following was listed as the purpose of the research:

* to produce an academic study in an underreported and emerging area of interest in women's sexuality,

* to determine the instance of use of sexual aids and devices,

* to identify women's attitudes toward such aids and devices and their role in overall health and well-being.

Here are some of the study's findings:

...approximately 75 percent of women purchase sexual aids and devices at specialty stores, although an increasing number of women are opting for the privacy and safety offered by Web-based stores.
The study found that top reasons women purchase sensual products online were:

* Anonymity - 80 percent (of respondents)
* Convenience - 75 percent Less
* Embarrassing - 71 percent
* Ability to Take One's Time - 64 percent Larger
* Selection - 42 percent

I have a couple of sex toys that I like very much. One is a rabbit pearl vibrator, which I like to use all the time. I have another one that is inserted into the vagina. It's best to use that one with a condom so that you don't pull the cord out. I bought some Kama Sutra massage cream for The Count for Valentine's Day, and it's very nice. It smells like mint and menthol.

Dr. Laura Berman, who is director of the Berman Center in Chicago, says that many women don't know what kind of sexual aid and device is right for them. Many women also don't know where to find them or how to use them. One great place in Chicago to find sexual aids and devices is The Honeysuckle Shop, own by blogger Flea from One Good Thing. There are lots of web site that sell sex toys in case you don't find what you're looking for at The Honeysuckle Shop, but Flea is sure you have what you need.

Posted on April 29, 2006 at 09:47 AM | Permalink

Comments

damn right

Posted by: jake at May 2, 2006 1:23:59 AM

Considering that the majority of sex toys are manufactured for women,
it is unbelievable how difficult it is to source quality product in a surrounding which
makes a woman feel comfortable. I am an exponent of the use of sex toys and strongly
believe in their healthy effects both mentally and physically, yet I do not want to sift
through vibrating dismembered torso's or cheap plastic chemical leaching vibrators in some
dodgy store or hypermarket style site. Times are a changing and there's becoming more viable
choice for women. I recently discovered www.theboudoir.net which specialises in women's toys- stylish, quality product and great tips. My rabbit arrived wrapped in tissue paper topped with a feather complete with careguide to help me extend the life of my latest. There's hope yet!

Posted by: Angelina at May 3, 2006 2:56:06 PM

This thread is useless without pics.

Posted by: anon at May 3, 2006 4:34:45 PM

It's great that women are more sexually empowered and enjoying sex on their own terms including with the use of sex toys. Check out www.funtimz.co.uk for a great range of vibrators, other sex toys, sexy basques, lingerie and adult wear. You'll be pleased you did!

Posted by: Peter Jeal at May 5, 2006 12:20:20 PM

you go girl!

Posted by: Mother at May 9, 2006 1:06:08 PM