The Countess - Elizabeth Black

Sugasm #169

Jenny McClain courtesy of Badgirl’s Hotbox.

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #170? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Clothespin Communion
“Surrender to the sensation.”

Remembering the Pain
“And it really was that bad.”

Short And Sweet
“Why don’t you turn over”

Sugasm Editor
Fetish Fridays: Financial Submission

Editor’s Choice
Belonging

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Absence
Evey Can Haz?
The Ghost of Sex Toys Past (Part One of Three)
“Boy, Girl, or In-between?” Princess Frida’s Fabulous Talk, and My Thoughts
“Work” Confession #297

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Busty beauty Jenny McClain
Flash Spanking Videos
Leighton Meester Sex Tape
Pearls
Thrashed on their bared buttocks
Waiting for Tonight

Sex Humor
Fat Sex and Why It’s Good

BDSM & Fetish
Don’t Have Mercy on Me, Baby
Formalities, and, on second thought, greetings
The Going Away Present
He gave them pain like balm, and they begged him for it
High School Bully Part 3
Home Alone?
Mollena Williams added to 100 Divas
A Night In Bondage
Under instruction
The war of the sexes

Sex Poetry
At the movies….

News, Reviews & Interviews
The Independent lists “the ten best sex toys.” I fly into a rage.
Take Me Out to the Sapphic Sex Romp
Vibratex Pandora
The Wily Old Crocodile: An Interview with Eosuchus

Sex Advice
Anal Sex for Beginners
New At Sex Is Magazine: Foods That Enhance Your Sex Drive
Q&A with Dr.Ruthie - Asking for Better Sex
Starting At The Bottom: An Intro to Anal Play, Part 2

Erotic Writing & Experiences
Amber gives me a blowjob..in person!
From Behind
Its Morning…(The Last Time)
Just fucking.
A Matter of Taste
May i feel said he
New Man at the Lesbos Palace
The Problem with Thongs
The Raise
Randy: the new big cock
Stranger Fuck & Plough
Whore, Adulteress, Sinner
You can leave your hat on

New At Sex Is Magazine: Foods That Enhance Your Sex Drive

I've just started writing for Sex Is Magazine, which came right on the heels of Nuts4chic closing. And the articles are more fun to write and longer. I'm loving it!

This week's article is about food and sex, entitled "You Are What You Eat: Foods That Improve Your Sex Life".

http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sexual-health/food-sex-pyramid-62392/

Here's an excerpt:

Your diet affects the taste of your sex organs and secretions. Certain foods make semen taste bitter as well as making pussy secretions taste and smell strong. A woman's taste and scent changes from day to day. There are many factors affecting her taste and smell, including where she is in her monthly cycle, whether or not she is menstruating, and what she has recently eaten. According to sex writer Violet Blue, friendly bacteria lactobacilli reside in a woman's vagina, so when her vagina is healthy she will have a sweet and slightly pungent taste and smell, much like plain yogurt. A woman's taste ranges from tangy to salty, with a hint of the metallic thrown in when she's close to having her period. The metallic taste comes from the iron in her blood.

Here's what to do to make your sweetie taste sweet instead of bitter:

1. Cut down on red meat. Red meat is the number one culprit in creating a strong taste. Related to red meat is dairy. Cut down on milk, cream, and ice cream. I won't say eliminate red meat and dairy altogether because so many people – including my husband and I – enjoy a good steak dinner followed by an ice cream dessert. Just cut down your intake, and increase your intake of poultry to make up for the loss. If you can cut meat out of your diet altogether, you will notice a dramatic effect on your sweetie's taste whether that person is a man or a woman. Vegan or vegetarian men have semen that tastes sweeter than men who regularly eat your basic red meat steak and potatoes with lots of garlic and onion meals.

PREVIOUS SEX IS ARTICLES BY ELIZABETH BLACK

"When Erectile Dysfunction Hits Home: Or How NOT To Turn Your Man Into A Meat Dildo". Sex Is Magazine described my article as "a fantastic and compassionate read".

http://www.edenfantasys.com/sexis/sex/erectile-dysfunction-60192/

Pleasurists #34

from dockera.com via art or porn

Pleasurists is your round-up of the adult product reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #33? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #35? Submit it here before Sunday June 28th at 11:59pm PDT. Please re-post this list on your own blog if listed.
Note: Monday the 29th is the editor’s birthday, Pleasurists #35 may be delayed next week.

Want to win some free swag? All you’ve got to do is enter.

• Christmas in July Deadline: June 24th at noon EST
• Vibrator Horror Story Contest Deadline: June 26th
• Name That Sex Toy! Deadline: 11:59 PST June 26th
• Summer Lust Contest! Deadline: June 28th, 2009 at 11:59 p.m. PST
• Cheebras Pin-Up Contest! Deadline: Entries MUST be received by midnight on July 4, 2009
• Hello Kitty Vibe photo contest Deadline: September 1, 2009

Madame Editrix
Scarlet Lotus St. Syr

On to the reviews…

Editor’s Pick

• Dream Massager G by Sleeping Dreamer

I love this vibrator for it’s power. Yes, these vibrations carry throughout the entirety of my vaginal canal and even vibrate down into my ass. I can feel the vibrator through the mattress, yea, that good. The Dream Massage G is to my vagina what the Hitachi is to my clitoris.

Vibrators

• Acuvibe Mini by Scarlet Lotus St. Syr
• Oui by Sommer Marsden
• Joanna Angel’s Bad Ass G Bullet by Baby Sinead
• Handy Massager Review by Pumpkin Lady
• I Rub My Duckie by Ginger Leigh
• Trinity Vibes Vibrating Silver Bullet by Mistress Says
• Hello Kitty Vibe by True Pleasures
• Slimline G by HotMoviesForHer Sex Toy Crew
• Ben’s G-Spot Smoothie by Beautiful Dreamer
• Rock Chick by Sleeping Dreamer
• Galaxy G-Kit by Ansley Agnello
• Bgee by Ansley Agnello
• Waterproof Slender Probe by Epiphora
• Impulse Hyper Sonic Wand by Domina Doll

Dildos

• Belladonna’s Magic Hand by Scarlet Lotus St. Syr
• Tantus G-Force Wand by Marla Singer St. Syr
• Sunshine Helix Real Tip Rocket by Carrie Ann
• Leo by Ansley Agnello
• Martian Night Spiral Curved e-Glass Dildo by Mistree Says
• DonWand Glass BubbleWand by Erotic Amusements
• Sugar Drop by Beautiful Dreamer
• Raspberry Chunk Juicer by Red
• Curve by Epiphora
• Milkmaid Dildo by Domina Doll on Viviane’s Sex Carnival

Anal Toys

• Flexi Felix by Arron Leone
• Fun Factory Bloomy by Red

Toys for Cocks

• Tenga Squeeze Play by Onyx V St. Syr
• Betty Jo Cock Ring by True Pleasures

Lube, Massage Oil, Bath Stuff, & etc.

• Sensation Erotic Massage Oil by Sarah
• Spectra 360 Electrode Gel by Red
• Yes Water Based Lube by Red
• Yes Oil Based Lube by Red
• Climax Bursts Toy Cleaner by Carrie Ann
• Fizz Lubricant by Carrie Ann
• Keep It Clean Toy Wash by Adriana
• Energizing Massage Balm by Intimate Organics by HotMoviesForHer Sex Toy Crew
• Shunga Massage Candle, Bath Gel, and Sweet Snow Powder by Carrie Ann
• Wet Originals by Domina Doll
• Wet Together by Red
• The Sensuous Soak Kit by The Countess
• Inttimo Kitty Shave Kreme by Adriana
• Oil of Love – Tangerines and Cream by Domina Doll

BDSM/Fetish

• Lover’s Riding Crop by Nadia West

Adult Books/Games

• Supersex by Tracey Cox by Amorous Rocker
• Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Domina Doll on Viviane’s Sex Carnival

Adult Movies/Porn

• Champion by Scarlet Lotus St. Syr
• Catherine by Backseat Boohoo
• The Joanna Angel Magical Threesome Adventure Experience by Beautiful Dreamer
• Carnal Sensations by J.D. Bauchery
• Sisters by FrzKey
• Sometime Sweet Susan by The Porn Librarian
• Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide To Anal Pleasure For Men by J.D. Bauchery
• Sex Warrior Pudding Collector’s Complete Edition by FrzKey
• Penny Flame’s Expert Guide to Rough Sex by Epiphora

Storage

• Sugar Sak Anti-Bacterial Toy Bags by Jessie M
• FYN Adult Toy Box by Laurel

Miscellaneous

• Fetish Fantasy Inflatable Position Master by Dragon Mage
• Babegloss by Adriana
• The ShockSpot fucking machine by KamaSutronics

BC Earth Explorer Widget

My husband and I just finished watching the BBC Earth three hour special, and it was incredibly good. We love nature shows.

Here's the BBC Earth Widget. Testing it here to see if it's too big for my sidebar.

Meet Me Today At The Romance Erotica Connection

I'll be at Romance Erotica Connection promoting "The Haunting Of The Sandpiper Inn, my Sex Is Magazine writing, and upcoming releases. Hang out with me from noon until 3 pm, EST.

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/romance_erotica_connection/

Hope to see you there!

I Just Finished "Feral Heat", My Werewolf Erotic Romance

I'm very happy with my finished novella, "Feral Heat". It's my first werewolf erotic romance. It has two hot and sexy werewolves, and I based their looks on Hugh Jackman as he looked in "Australia" and Orlando Bloom as Legolas in "Lord of the Rings". This novella is a f/m/m menage, and it's very hot!!! Now I can start working on "Dangerous Curves" again. I hope to have that novella finished by the end of the month. Top that with my usual daily sex toys work and the article about sexercise I'm writing for Sex Is Magazine, and I'm a very busy girl. But tonight, it's a few glasses of red wine and relaxing with my husband while we watch "21 Jump Street". Speaking of sexy men, Johnny Depp is adorably hot in this show.

Babeland: Sensuous Soak Kit

I love to take a long soak in the bath, especially when I'm having my period because the hot water makes me feel better. So I was eager to try Babeland's Sensuous Soak Kit.

It has everything! A delightful sponge with its own waterproof bullet vibrator that may be removed so that I may use it on its own, which I did. It felt great on my nipples. The Babeland Bubble Bath, scented Afternoon Delight, foamed up very well when the hot water hit it. The scent was a delicious rustic spice that I liked much better than the usual floral or fruity scents I get from bubble bath. The bubble bath also made the water feel softer.

I loved the cucumber water scented Afterglow massage candle by JimmyJane. I already have a JimmyJane Afterglow massage candle, scented pink lotus, and I must admit that JimmyJane makes my favorite massage candles. It burns slowly, and the massage oil worked well in the bath. I can use the massage oil in the bath or directly on my skin. The cucumber water scent went very well with Afternoon Delight.

This Sensuous Soak Kit comes with a waterproof book of erotica called Aqua Erotica, with stories by some well known erotica writers, including Cecilia Tan, Thomas Roche, and Poppy Z. Brite. I love to read while soaking in the bath, and since this book is waterproof, I didn't have to worry about getting it wet. What a fantastic idea for a book! Make it waterproof so that you may enjoy it in a bath filled with fragrant bubbles.

The best part is that while you may buy each of these products in the Sensuous Soak Kit separately, when you buy them together in this kit, you save 15%! All of the products in the Sensuous Soak Kit are high quality and perfect for soaking away your hectic day, or enjoying a sensuous soak with someone you love.

Enjoy your sex play and buy your Sex Toys at Babeland.

New Lesbian Stories Coming Soon

Keep an eye on my blog and MySpace page for my upcoming F/F stories. Here's the dirt:

"Lost In Her Mouth" - a F/F romp that will appear in my book "Tales of Lust and Longing", published by Whiskey Creek Press Torrid. This book is a refurbishing of my book "Summer Heat". "Lost In Her Mouth" is about two sexy women having kinky fun with popsicles on a hot summer day. Expect "Tales of Lust and Longing" to be released in September.

"Neighbors" - a F/F/F menage romp about a young stick-in-the-mud who gets the education of her life when two sexy and exciting new neighbors move into the apartment next door. This story is about coming out of your shell and enjoying the finer things in life. This story will be published by Torquere Press.

These are my first two lesbian stories, and I'm very excited about them. I'll post more info as release dates approach.

Friday Random Ten - The Naughty Fiction Edition

I'm going to spend my weekend finishing "Feral Heat" so that I may hand it in. I hope it gets accepted. It's my first attempt at werewolf erotica. I imagine one male character as looking like Hugh Jackman and the other male character looks like Legolas Greenleaf in the "Lord Of The Rings" movies. Very hot!! And there's a young woman... so we have menage f/m/m. Scorching! I hope to finish it this weekend so I may start working on "Dangerous Curves" again. I'd like to have that one done by the end of the month.

In honor of me cranking out that story and subbing it, here is my Friday Random Ten:

1. Tomb Raider 1: Title Theme

2. Silence (Airscape Remix) - Delerium Poem

3. Sword of Islam - Delerium - Faces, Forms, and Illusions

4. Colors - Trance 2002, Second Edition

5. Rosie Darko - Michael Andrews, Donnie Darko Soundtrack

6. M386 - Brian Eno, Music For Films

7. Suffragette City, David Bowie, The Rise And Fall Of Ziggy Stardust

8. JD Albert vs. Precision, Say Yes - Trance 2002, Second Edition

9. While Shepherds Watched, Dan Gibson's Solitudes, Christmas Wonder (I really should move this one to a CD and get the Christmas music off my iTunes...)

10. The Girl From Ipanema - Stan Getz and Astrud Gilberto

Sex Toys Review: Bedroom Pleasures

Bedroom Pleasures sells bestselling sex toys ranging from the elite Lelo line to cheap sex toys. The site is very easy on the eyes, with a nice magenta and black colour scheme. The web site is easy to read and navigate. You are immediately attracted to the list of prices, which toys are newest, and the link to the brands sold on the site.

Here's something really cute: there is a pink teddy bear on each page with the text "Quick, the boss is coming!", so when you're shopping for sex toys at work and the boss is heading over, click on the teddy bear and you're taken immediately to Google. Very clever and cute.

Brands run a wide range, including Aneros, Lelo, California Exotics, Doc Johnson, Durex, Hitachi, Tenga, Topco, and even OhMiBod. If you want sex toys from a specific sex toys line, you're bound to find it at Bedroom Pleasures.

You may also search according to price range. The prices range from under £10 to over £100. So, if you are limited by your budget, you may choose sex toys easily depending on price. Or if you want a high end, expensive sex toy, you will find exactly what you need at Bedroom Pleasures.

The categories on the left lay out all the sex toys in a convenient and easy way. Categories include vibrators, dildos, anal toys, sex toys for him, bedroom bondage, sexy lingerie, lubes, condoms, sexual health, fun and games, adult dvds, erotic books and erotic art. It's unusual to see erotic books and especially erotic art on sex toys web sites, and I'm glad to see both. In addition to easy-to-find categories, this section also includes links for sex toys that are on sale and a sexy lingerie sale.

Bedroom Pleasures sells men's wear along with the chemise and baby dolls, basques and corsets, sexy uniforms, briefs and shorts, thongs and panties, teddies, stockings, tights, bras, camis, and so much more. Men's wear isn't commonly shown on sex toys web sites, but Bedroom Pleasures includes three sets of shorts and briefs that look very comfortable. While there is a plus sized category, there are no products listed in it. I hope it's filled soon, because I know lots of plus sized women who would love to buy some pretty lingerie.

Each category shows five popular products and then divides each category into sub categories with pictures to whet your appetite. There are well-known vibrators in the vibrator category such as the fabulous Hitachi Magic Wand and the wonderful Lelo Lily in pink. Vibrators are even divided into materials, so you may search the jelly and silicone vibes separately. Very nice touch.

You may choose from an amazing number of vibrators, including the ever-popular rabbit vibe, classics, clit vibes, waterproof vibrators, strap ons, vibrator kits, silicone vibes, small vibes, remote control, G-spot vibes, and many, many others. The deluxe vibrators category carries the best products out there, including Lelo, JimmyJane, and Emotional Bliss. You'll even find very unusual products, such as I Rub My Duckie – in gold, The Cone, Lelo's gold plated vibrator for several hundred dollars (the ultimate elite gift), turning, twisting, and thrusting rabbit vibrators, Emotional Bliss's warming Womolia, and even OhMiBod's Boditalk phone activated vibrator if you like a little phone sex.

The G-spot vibes will have you drooling. There's the well-known Rock Chick and G-spot vibes by Fun Factory, Doc Johnson, and California Exotics. The prices range from fairly cheap to expensive, and all are high quality, so you may enjoy your shopping experience no matter the shape of your purse. There is a very nice selection at Bedroom Pleasures, and you're bound to find the perfect G-spot vibrator for you enjoyment.

Dildos are divided into realistic dildos, jelly, strap ons, silicone, double ended, metal, large, and glass. What an easy way to find a dildo for yourself or one for a friend! There is also a sale on dildos, so click on that link. Nice bargains to be had! Metal dildos caught my attention since I don't often see them, and the category includes a couple of very nice metal dildos and several expensive ceramic ones. These dildos work like glass dildos in that they retain heat and cold very well for some wonderful sensation play.

You'll find everything you need for light or heavy bedroom bondage, including handcuffs, bondage rope and tape, sex machines, whips, paddles, cock straps, ball gags, nipple clamps, masks, and much, much more. Get yourself some anal toys to go with your bedroom bondage toys, and Bedroom Pleasures has small and slim anal toys as well as big and thick ones. Enjoy your kinks with well known and reasonably priced products that are always in stock.

All in all, Bedroom Pleasures is an impressive and well-stocked web site that offers a wide range of products from simple and cheap to luxurious and expensive. You'll find what you want here, and it's going to be in stock. Spend some time shopping at Bedroom Pleasure, and make sure you click on that cute little teddy bear when the boss comes snooping around.